Boyfriend wont makeout with me?

ive never made out with a guy before and i had my first kiss with my boyfriend , he aperantly made out with someone before but he doesnt want to make out with me cuz when he made out with the person things werent the same after that , so hes afraid that'll happen with me. but i really wannt makeout with him ,hes also afraid to grab my boobs or my butt, he flipps out when he does it by accident , but he still hugs and kisses me, should i wait until hes ready to makeout with me or what? im 14